I also wanted to tell you that I
went back to my waterfall paradise to see D. She’s gonna be ok. It’s amazing to
see how many people who end up here didn’t share their innermost feelings with
the people who were close to them and could have helped them. I can see so
clearly what a trick of the devil that is, and where his power lies, and the
strategy the demons of death use on us young people. It’s almost always the
same pattern. Reassure everyone, be secretive, shame about what you’re going
through. Like with me the doctor said I was ashamed of my sickness, but it wasn’t
just my sickness. I was also ashamed of my depression and tried to hide it and
put on a bold front, which fooled just about everyone. Or even if you were
worried about me, you didn’t have a hint that I would resort to something like that.
It was the same for D., although she wasn’t sick with anything, but she was
sick with life. She was being plagued by unseen torment, by deep depression,
the kind that makes you feel you are in a black hole and can never pull out.
But she didn’t tell anyone. How could she? She had everything going for her,
she was successful, she didn’t think anyone would understand what she was going
through, she was afraid her loved ones would either make fun of her, or tell
her it wasn’t true, but to her it was so real and so dark she just couldn’t
pull out of it. So she put an end to it all. She also knew she would come to
Heaven. She knew Jesus would forgive her and would take her in. She didn’t
think about the consequences on her loved ones, on her family. She thought,
like me, that it was the best choice for everyone, that it would spare them
having to find out that she was suffering from depression and that it may hurt
her future carrier, or her competition. She was afraid to disappoint them, so
the spirits of death convinced her to end it all. But Jesus won in the end, ‘cause
she’s safe in His arms now. She just needs time to heal, and then she’ll be ok.
Jesus will use anyone. He needs us, both on earth and in heaven, to accomplish
His purpose, His mission. So she’s not lost. But it’s hard for her of course to
see how sad her family is. She definitely wants her family to know that she’s
fine, that she’s sorry to have caused them so much pain, that she didn’t mean
to. That she was trying to spare them from having to discover she was suffering
from depression. That she didn’t realize it would be a lot worse. But the thing
they need to understand, is that depression does that to you, and it’s all the
work of the spirits of death, to persuade the person who’s depressed that
ending it all is the loving thing to do, is the most selfless thing to do, it
is to spare your loved ones the pain of having to cure someone who is mentally
ill. So that the person feels it is their only choice, and it is the best
choice, the most selfless choice, out of love for their family. Even if suicide
is totally contrary to a person’s personality, even if they never talked about
it before, that is what depression can do to someone, and it’s perpetrated by
the devil and the spirits of death that are under his command. Oh one more
thing, she wanted me to pass on to her family that the Lord was with her each
step of the way, that he had sent an angel to hold her when she passed away and
to bring her to Him, and she was so overwhelmed by the love and forgiveness He
flooded upon her that she couldn’t even describe it. But I knew exactly what
she meant. In any case, she mainly wants her family to stop grieving over her
and to stop blaming themselves. She wants them to know that it’s nothing any of
them has done, that she loves them all, that they’ve been wonderful with her,
and she wants them to know that she’s ok, she’s happy now, her depression is
gone and she’s on her way to recovery. She is receiving healing now in the
waterfall of the Lord’s love and she will try to communicate with them when she
feels ready.
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